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Am I Lesbian? Free Online Lesbian Quiz & Test (16 Questions)

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Have you ever gotten “butterflies” around a girl?

Questions Overview

How the "Am I Lesbian?" Test scores every answer

Full transparency. Each of the 16 questions in our Lesbian Quiz has four options. Every option maps to one of five result tiers — your final Lesbian Test result is the average across all answers.

LesbianMostly womenBi / QuestioningMostly menLikely straight
  1. 1

    Have you ever gotten “butterflies” around a girl?

    • LesbianYes, for sure.
    • Mostly womenOnly when this one specific girl talks to me, looks at me, or shows me physical affection.
    • Bi / QuestioningI’ve felt nervous around a girl before, but I wouldn’t call it “butterflies.”
    • Likely straightNo. Don’t think so.
  2. 2

    Do your close female friendships ever feel intense or kind of romantic?

    • LesbianOh, I’ve definitely had a crush on my best friend.
    • Mostly womenI’ve had one friendship that did feel a little different.
    • Mostly menI’m close with my friends, but I think those are just platonic “girl crushes.”
    • Likely straightNope. Friends are important, but I don’t think about them romantically.
  3. 3

    When you imagine a future with a guy, what do you picture?

    • LesbianOof. I can’t picture that at all.
    • Bi / QuestioningI can see myself ending up with a guy but can’t imagine what he’d look like or be like.
    • Mostly womenI don’t know if a long-term relationship with a guy is right for me.
    • Likely straightThat sounds like something I’d want!
  4. 4

    Who do you mainly have crushes on?

    • LesbianGirls, female celebrities, or fictional female characters.
    • Bi / QuestioningA mix of girls and guys.
    • Mostly womenMale celebrities or fictional male characters but never guys IRL.
    • Likely straightGuys or my close male friends.
  5. 5

    How do you feel about queer female characters, celebrities, or influencers?

    • LesbianI will watch or read anything just for the queer representation.
    • Mostly womenI can identify with lots of queer female characters or famous lesbians.
    • Bi / QuestioningI can think of a few queer female characters or celebrities I like.
    • Mostly menI don’t feel strongly one way or another.
  6. 6

    Do you feel romantically attracted to guys?

    • LesbianI'm not at all interested in being in a romantic relationship with a guy.
    • Mostly womenI think I'm more romantically attracted to girls.
    • Bi / QuestioningI'm not sure, maybe?
    • Likely straightI definitely experience romantic attraction to guys.
  7. 7

    How does it feel to be physically intimate with a guy (or imagine being intimate)?

    • LesbianI’m not into it, and it’s hard for me to imagine.
    • Mostly womenI’m fine with it, but I don’t get what all the hype is about.
    • Bi / QuestioningI know I like guys, but I’d be open to being intimate with a girl.
    • Likely straightI’m only physically attracted to guys, so it’s great.
  8. 8

    How would you feel about kissing a girl?

    • LesbianWho else would I kiss?
    • Mostly womenI’ve kissed a girl and liked it, or I haven’t done it yet but imagine I’d like it.
    • Bi / QuestioningI would try kissing a girl but don’t know if I’d be into it.
    • Likely straightI’m not interested in kissing girls.
  9. 9

    Do you have a lot of friends who identify as LGBTQ+?

    • LesbianYes, pretty much all my friends are queer.
    • Mostly womenA few of my friends are queer, and I feel really connected to them.
    • Bi / QuestioningI don’t know a ton of queer people, but I’m drawn to the community.
    • Mostly menI think most of my friends are straight.
  10. 10

    Why did you decide to take this quiz?

    • Mostly womenI’m pretty sure about my identity but just wanted to check.
    • Bi / QuestioningI already identify as queer, but I’m not sure if I’m only attracted to women.
    • Bi / QuestioningI’m starting to wonder if I’m interested in both guys and girls.
    • Mostly menI’m taking this just for fun!
  11. 11

    When you imagine kissing or being intimate with your future partner, how do you feel?

    • Mostly womenAs long as I’m with someone I really like, that sounds great.
    • Bi / QuestioningGood, I guess?
    • Bi / QuestioningI can’t imagine that and I don’t think I’ll ever want that, regardless of gender.
    • Mostly menI’m too young for that.
  12. 12

    If a woman flirted and expressed attraction toward you, how would you feel?

    • LesbianI’d feel amazing. How can we make this happen?
    • Mostly womenI’d be interested and want to get to know her better.
    • Bi / QuestioningI’d be a little intrigued or at least want to be friends with her.
    • Likely straightI’d be flattered, but I’d tell her I’m not into girls.
  13. 13

    How do you feel after watching or listening to queer media?

    • LesbianVery fulfilled. A part of me feels really seen and validated.
    • Mostly womenContent. I feel like I identify with aspects of it.
    • Bi / QuestioningSlightly positive. I don’t necessarily relate to it, but I do enjoy it.
    • Likely straightAmbivalent. I don’t feel any connection to queer media.
  14. 14

    Do you ever dream about getting intimate with another woman?

    • LesbianAll the time.
    • Mostly womenSometimes, but not exclusively.
    • Mostly menNo, but I haven't really given it much thought.
    • Likely straightNot at all.
  15. 15

    How would you feel if someone assumed you were a lesbian?

    • LesbianGratified. That feels like an accurate way to describe me.
    • Mostly womenIntrigued—I wonder how they came to that conclusion.
    • Mostly menConfused. That doesn’t sound like me.
    • Likely straightAmused. They clearly don’t know me at all!
  16. 16

    Pretend that 2 years have passed—how likely are you to be dating someone who’s the same gender as you?

    • LesbianSuper likely! I could definitely see that happening.
    • Mostly womenFairly likely. I’m certainly open to dating someone of the same gender.
    • Mostly menNot that likely, but I’ll see how things go.
    • Likely straightNot likely at all—I’m not interested in that sort of relationship.

How the "Am I Lesbian?" quiz scoring works

Each option is worth points: Lesbian = 4, Mostly women = 3, Bi / Questioning = 2, Mostly men = 1, Likely straight = 0. We average your 16 answers and place you in a tier:

  • Average ≥ 3.25 → Lesbian
  • Average ≥ 2.50 → Mostly women
  • Average ≥ 1.50 → Bi / Questioning
  • Average ≥ 0.75 → Mostly men
  • Below 0.75 → Likely straight

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